Your virtual third space for feeling less alone, in and out of love
The membership for millennial women navigating the challenges of dating, heartbreak, and new relationships who are tired of the false promises of hyper-independence and the self-sufficiency of singlehood
We start September 1st.
Join before August 18th and receive a free 1:1 session with Amy during your first month of TLC.
[ MODERN LOVE IS DIZZYING ]From the apps & dating norms constantly evolving to ghosting and the subtle art of a new relationship. Modern love demands resilience, and it’s exhausting.
And in a culture of hyper-independence, we’re told to do it on our own. Move through heartbreak on our own. Heal on our own. Navigate the world of dating and the complexities of a new relationship all on our own.
But we were never meant to do this alone. We were never meant to wade through grief without community. Or piece together our relationship to dating in a silo. Or stumble through the nuances of love solo.
Modern love is, undeniably, complicated. What we want is changing. What we’re willing to settle for is shifting. And we need spaces to let those shifts breathe. To find our version of them. To untangle what it means to love and love well.
The Love Club is a community for women navigating the nuances of dating, love, relationships, and life itself.
dating
heartbreak
new relationships
[ THE MONTHLY INVENTORY ]Every month inside the club
The Monthly Agenda
Therapist-led monthly workshop based on what’s most resonant & potent in the community (Live, but always recorded)
Past examples include Decentering Romantic Love while still Desiring Partnership, Rejection & Rebuilding Self-Trust, and Physical Intimacy & Sensuality.
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Guest workshop to create, connect, learn, and evolve. Past guests have included somatic practitioners, sex educators, active breathwork facilitators, and author-led book clubs
x 2
Monthly journaling prompts, reading lists, micro-videos
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An active online platform (run on Circle) to connect, share, process, and tune in between calls — 86% of members are active every week
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Processing Calls — an open, community space to share experiences, bounce ideas get feedback, and most importantly feel seen.
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Hear from the club
A month, stitched together
WEEK 01The Workshop
Part learning & part conversation, the workshop sets the tone for the month ahead
WEEK 02 + 04Processing Calls
An an open space for us to air out current love-life happenings, discuss patterns, process past experiences, get feedback, and share a supportive space. Always the most popular calls of the month!
WEEK 03The Guest Workshop
Something different every month to bring in new perspectives on love & Intimacy
ALWAYSThe Community
Our online platform is a beloved space & way to be in community outside of live calls. 86% of members are active every week.
[ THE PLATFORM ]
The Living Room
A salon, but for love. This is where we come for connection, perspective, and nuanced conversation across dating, heartbreak, and new relationships.
A space to process the situationship you can’t quite shake, air out a question that’s been taking up too much brain space, debrief a date, or share the Substack that’s quietly changing the way you think.
The Workroom
The Workroom is our living practice log. The place where we come to clock our moves. The boundary you held. The risk you took in the name of self-trust. The new behaviors you’re integrating or the realization that you six months ago would have responded so differently.
As we much as we’d love for growth to be a mosaic of defining moments, most of the time, they’re tiny, quiet steps forward. And we can brush right past them or we can pause, notice, and celebrate our becoming.
The Archive
The Archive is our living library. Every monthly call, guest workshop, somatic practice, journal exercise, and micro video is waiting for you. You’ll have access to all of The Love Club content from your first day as a member.
[ INSIDERS TAKE ]“The Love Club has become an anchor for me. The camaraderie, encouragement and inquiry present within the group are so grounding. I'm blown away by the thoughtful, smart and reflective women in TLC, and how TLC has cultivated a space for us to show up with Tender Loving Curiosity around the breadth of our experiences.”
— Rachel
Overheard in the club
You heard it here first.
[ INSIDERS TAKE ]“What I’ve appreciated most is that TLC isn’t built around having everything figured out. It’s a space where curiosity is welcomed, where nuance is valued, and where growth happens through conversation rather than performance. If you’re someone who is craving more intentional conversations, deeper reflection, and a community that values authenticity over perfection, TLC is for you.”
— Lauren
A therapist for modern love, a writer, and a hopeless romantic
I’ve been obsessed with love for as long as I can remember. I probably always will be. It's the most confusing, euphoric, devastating, satiating, expansive thing we do. And it's universal. It transcends every neat label we've come up with to separate ourselves.
As an LMFT and certified breathwork facilitator, I’ve spent over 3,000 hours of sitting with people in the messy, gritty, incredibly rewarding work of untangling relational wounds. But when it comes to love, I started to see that something was missing.
Healing tucked away in quiet rooms isn't how we were meant to heal.
So much of our growth exists in relationship with others: trying, fumbling, falling, being given grace, and trying again. It exists in the way someone says, me too. Or the moment when someone lovingly, tenderly challenges us. We were never meant to do this alone.
So that's why The Love Club exists. It’s the space I needed, but never had. It’s my daily reminder the community is nourishing. It’s a third space for love and maybe, for you.
Disclaimer: The Love Club is not therapy or a substitute for therapy.
AMY JUNE · THE SOFTENING [ INSIDERS TAKE ]"I absolutely adore the community space for reflection and processing calls. The opportunity to connect with such a diverse group of goddesses who are in shared communion over the desirability for love but with such multi-faceted stories to share has been healing in and of itself.
I love my friends, and also, I never want to bombard them with my woes over love, so having this sanctuary to do exclusively that (and heal in the process!) is worth its value tenfold."
— Amelia
Who The Love Club is for
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Still healing
the heartbreak that won't budge
Grief is like mist, drifting in and out of sight. It’s unruly with time. Rolls its eyes at space. Despite your efforts, it lingers. Your grief won’t be pushed, hurried, or silenced here.
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Questioning dating
and tired of the apps
You’ve done the apps and the friend set ups. Maybe you even joined the run club. You want a partner, but you’re no longer willing to settle. You’re looking for a space to process your relationship with dating, intimacy, and relationships alongside women asking the same questions.
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It's still new
and nobody warned you
Culturally we treat a new relationship as the finish line. Like, you did it! You’re done now. But nobody mentioned it would stir up so much. You’re allowed to be honest about the wobble without it meaning that your relationship is doomed.
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Already done the work
and want company, not a course
You know your attachment style & can name your patterns. But you also know that the answers don’t come perfectly packaged. You’re looking for a depth-oriented space to practice, integrate, and embody the work of love.
[ INSIDERS TAKE ]"TLC has been so healing and opening for me. The depth of the topics. The connection to somatic practices is a huge one for me as a chronic over-thinker. But what I love most is just the sense of community. Camaraderie. Just straight up girl-talk. Every time we have a call, I just feel really awakened to how much I just love humans, but most especially women."
— Cara
But what’s the outcome?
Wouldn’t we all love to know! My honest answer is, it depends. But here’s what you might experience:
Inching closer to yourself. To your version of the truth. To how you want to love
Rewriting your relationship with romantic love and intimacy at large.
Rediscovering your definition of self-trust, embodiment, and intuition
Building community, belonging, and the quiet reassurance that you are never too much.
“It’s so hard to even put into words, but I just feel less lonely.”
What we're walking through together
THREE THEMES · SIX MONTHS · SNEAK PEEK
THEME ONE
Love & Inter-generational Patterns
Examining the beliefs we inherited & carry with us about relationships & intimacy
Guest Expert: Keito Hirakawa, Menstrual Cycle Guide + Storyteller
THEME TWO
Longing, desire, & our relationship to uncertainty
Guest expert: Lexi Sidle and Delana Bristow founders of Wealthkind
Guest expert: Rachel Lee, Somatic Practitioner & Astrology
THEME THREE
Body-led emotional processing
November will give our minds a break and focus on integration through the body.
Guest workshops by movement practitioners & conversations around embodiment.
[ AND EVERYTHING BEFORE IT, YOURS FROM DAY ONE ]Decentering Romance While Still Desiring Partnership
IN THE ARCHIVESomatics, Intuition, and Rebuilding Self-Trust
IN THE ARCHIVESituationships & Self-abandonment
IN THE ARCHIVEHyper-independent to Interdependence
IN THE ARCHIVEPhysical Intimacy & Sensuality
IN THE ARCHIVERejection, Vulnerability, and Getting Back Out There
IN THE ARCHIVE
[ JOIN THE FALL SEASON ]What’s included —
THE LOVE CLUB Therapist-led monthly workshop based on what’s most resonant & potent in the community (Live, but always recorded)
Past examples include Decentering Romantic Love while still Desiring Partnership, Rejection & Rebuilding Self-Trust, and Physical Intimacy & Sensuality.
x 1
Monthly guest workshop to create, connect, learn, and evolve. Somatic practitioners, sex educators, active breathwork facilitators, and author-led book clubs
x 2
Processing Calls — an open, community space to share experiences, bounce ideas get feedback, and most importantly feel seen.
x 1
An active online platform to connect, share, process, and tune in between calls
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[ JOIN THE FALL SEASON ]Join the Fall Season
THE LOVE CLUB Six-month season
Twelve-month season
Common Q’s
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The Love Club is $99 per month with a six month commitment and $83 per month with a 12 month commitment. The annual membership is paid upfront.
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There are four live calls per month, two of which are recorded.
Three calls per month are evening PST (ideal for US, Australia, Central America, and parts of Asia).
One call per month is in the morning PST (optimized for US, Europe, and UK folks).
We currently have members from the US, Australia, The Philippines, The Netherlands, The UK, Denmark, Ireland, and Mexico.
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Yes. TLC is exclusively for female-identifying individuals. If you're male-identifying and interested in working together, I do work with men in my 1:1 container, The Slow Burn. You can learn more here.
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There is no monthly option to enter the club. Once your initial six or twelve months is up, you have the option to cancel your membership or continue monthly (and cancel anytime).
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Good question. No, The Love Club is not group therapy. The Love Club is a community space with elements of coaching & facilitation.
If, at any point, I believe that you need a higher level of support and TLC is no longer a good fit, I will support you in finding the right resources/support.
Additionally, we'll have community contract/guidelines to help you determine what's appropriate to share in this space vs. what should be processed in individual work.
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While this is up to you, building connections/community takes time. Real relationships take intention and energy.
I recommend engaging with the community at least once a week. This can look like attending a live call, hopping in or sharing on the chat, or commenting on someone else’s post.
This will also change based on our capacity. Some weeks/months you’ll have more space to invest and share, others you’ll be more of an observer (which is totally okay!) I’ll end with this: Just like anything else, you usually “get out” what you invest so the more you can show up, the more connected you’ll feel.
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The monthly workshops, micro-learnings, guest workshops, and somatic practices will be recorded and shared in the community. Processing calls will not be recorded to respect privacy & increase emotional safety.
Inviting in the softest parts of you
It's the healing power of me too. Or the way someone articulates exactly how you feel but couldn't find the words for. It's the thought, feeling, or experience we thought was just us, but never was.
It's the hour that changes the day. The connection that changes your life. It's the visceral reminder that we are not alone, that we never were.